I was mentioned above, so I feel the need to reply.
Yes, I was thinking about making admin moderation, but I'm not good with making plugins, I know how to insert things directly into the code, but not how to make the admin panels, so I kind of left that idea for a while now, but eventually I'll have to do it, because I still get some scammers and some "viagra" inquiries..
What my idea was, that each inquiry once submitted would be temporary stored in a database and admin would have a panel in admin menu where all the inquiries would be displayed. Each inquiry will then have Approve/Reject button (additionally also ban to connect with ban plugin), so admin will manually approve inquiry, if it finds it legit. Only then it will be sent to the seller email or deleted from database table, if it's a scam.
This, I believe would be the best way to stop your users getting emails they do not want. A bit more work for you, but effective and great for your users.
For starters, where is the controller for the item contact form located?