Except I'm an idiot and osc_show_flash_message doesn't actually return anything..
It just "echo"s the html back to your page...
(echo = "print", meaning it just prints <div id="flashmessage" class="flashmessage", etc. to your HTML page)
So another way we can do this is to change the CSS
So... Look for the CSS that styles the "alert-message" and apply it to "flashmessage"
osc_show_flash_message applies "flashmessage" style to it's messages.
We can just make the CSS apply the styling to "flashmessage" instead of "alert-message"
And something similar for the "close" button.
This should work as custom.css is only called on the end-user pages, not the Admin pages.
I will work on this tonight and post the fix here