Nevermind hosting, anyway, no, I'm afraid don't have any meaningful numbers for you. For example, on vps/dedi I can tell you exactly how much is used by MySQL, Apache+PHP and other less related processes. But, I configure them to span across their limits, and I usually do not limit PHP or Osclass at all, so they span as much as they can (they take all). My memory (combined phy + swap) is always around 90% utilized, this is why I see this php reports as wrong. Here's one example (server is idle, but fully on stand-by):
Now, when you combine all the columns -> I get the ~ same values in my admin hosting panel. That is accuracy I am talking about.